Law of Attraction

People Who Are Loud Outside Are Generally Insecure Inside And Have Low Self-Esteem

May 18, 2017

You have probably seen a lot of people who are outgoing and have the charm to impress others. In general, we think that these people are awesome. But they are not exactly what we see. According to some studies, people who are loud outside are mostly insecure inside and have low self-esteem. They are loud because they feel insecure and this loudness is their mask to cover personalities.

As they feel insecure, they try to attract people with their outgoing attitude. People, who have this type of personality often, need attention and compliments otherwise they lose confidence.

The reasons behind this type of personality:

It’s not easy to find out every reason behind this type of personality, but there are some common factors.

Poor family bonding: Growing up in a friendly environment make people bloom in later life. If someone grows up in a family where there is a lack of affection, support and attention, the person can suffer from insecurities.

Past trauma: People, who suffered mental, physical and emotional abuse, are prone to have low self-esteem, depression and anxiety.

Negative thinking: this is actually a common problem. A lot of people like to think negatively. Negative thoughts make people depressed and insecure.

High expectations of others: in this case, family plays the main role. If the family has high expectations from the child in cases like academic result or sports result, the child becomes frightened. And that fear gradually gives birth to insecurities.

If you know someone who has low self-esteem, try to strengthen the person. Support the person so that she/ he can overcome every kind of insecurity. Let’s see what you should do with them.

  1. Don’t engage in negative conversations

The person will try to start a negative conversation, but you must make it into a positive one. If the person tells about his/her failure, you can remind him/her about the past achievements.

  1. Tell them that you care about them

It’s important to tell them that you care about them. Low self-esteem sometimes comes from the lack of love, so you must make them sure that you love them. Listen to them and find a positive solution to every problem.

  1. Make them laugh

Laughter is the best therapy. If you can make them laugh, they will have trust in you. If you enjoy time with them, they will also be glad to have you beside them when they are in need.

  1. Don’t judge too soon

Yes, it matters. Don’t judge this type of people as they can feel more insecure. Try to understand their problem and then make comment. If they are unable to make the right decision, help them grow their confidence level. Remember, there are some situations that can’t be avoided just like you feel hunger or sleepy.

Loud people can wear masks, but it is our duty to make them feel secure. Their low-self esteem and insecurity will give them nothing. And at the same time, we will also feel guilty if we don’t help them overcome their problems.

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